Very well said.
I will note that, when I started Wayfarer, one of my first nominations, for a local Thai restaurant, was rejected. When I asked what I could do on the old forums, I posted the actual main photo, not a screenshot, and the advice I received was to either resubmit or appeal. I appealed, and it was rejected for 3rd party photo. I went back to the forums, explained that I took the photo myself from my phone (even sharing this info from my phone), and asked if something could be done. Less than 24 hours later, the rejection was reversed and the nomination was approved. I was thankful for this, and moved on, knowing to post screenshots in the future.
Since I have experienced a rejection for 3rd party photo from staff on appeal, I understand that it can be frustrating, but it’s possible that it can be reversed.
We’ve also seen where submitters have submitted a nomination, only for it to be rejected for 3rd party photo due to them posting the main photo on another website themselves, and they took the photos themselves. While it may be best to hold off uploading main photos to other websites until the nomination has been approved, they still have an option to appeal and note that they took the photos themselves and uploaded them to the other websites.
I also think there is some emotion in some of these posts, due to us losing a member of the community. While it’s unfortunately to lose someone, that isn’t what we are discussing, and the emotion isn’t always helpful in continuing the discussion, as well as looking at what we already know about this topic, that being photos (namely screenshots of nominations) being posted in the forums being flagged as 3rd party by staff. A screenshot is not the actual main photo, is of lower quality, and may contain more info, such as title/description. Some have posted their main photos here in the forums, and, like with happened to me, if rejected by staff may be reversed.
So, let’s look at what we already know about posting photos here in the forums, look at the past events and what had been done. Mistakes can be made, but they can also be corrected, as was the case in my experience.