I started writing a reply to a topic about an (overturned) abuse warning someone had received and the warning was removed by Niantic staff following the topic discussion. And as I was writing it I realised it would be better as a stand alone post. Partly to raise awareness, but also to prompt discussion and perhaps some consideration about how to tweak things in Wayfarer.
For reference I’m ADHD & Autistic, and I’ve been involved in a bunch of (real world) community organising and work on how to improve neuro-inclusivity. I don’t like to lead with my “credentials”, but I want to make it clear I’m not posting after just seeing an interesting TiKTok.
From a ND perspective Wayfarer has an increasing issue with the words and descriptions of things not matching the reality of them.
A very common trait of Autism, and other types of ND is where I read/hear the words that someone says and that’s what I understand. I don’t think “I wonder what they actually mean by using these descriptive words which isn’t the meaning of the descriptive words themselves?”
ND people are often very keen on rules and following rules, partly as a self-defence mechanism around regularly misunderstanding and being misunderstood. So where rules don’t make sense, or the actual rules are different to the way the rules are written down this causes us a lot of problems. It messes with our heads, can cause us to loose any respect for the rules, or the system enforcing them and send us into endless side quests trying to understand why the rules aren’t what they say they are.
Of course there are grey areas with something like Wayfarer criteria, that’s understandable. Of course it’s expected there will be things that different people will have different views on, that’s understandable. That’s not what I’m talking about. Neither of those concepts is necessarily an issue for ND people, we don’t need things to be “black and white” if they are explicitly framed as being grey.
Having grey areas is very different to there being a “hidden curriculum” where you are expected to read some words and infer a bunch of extra meaning which isn’t written down. Even worse is when the precise meaning of the words is different to what they are understood to represent in the specific context. I.E. wayfarer criteria where the actual words used do not convey the actual way they are applied.
All of this means, although the Wayfarer system is challenging for anyone to get to grips with, it is presenting specific barriers for ND people to engage with, and is asking disproportionately more of ND people. Essentially, for a ND person it’s like reading the criteria in a second language (which non-ND people are reasonably fluent in) and having to translate it yourself. It’s a lot more work, a lot more stressful and you will make mistakes.
Another problem is “justice sensitivity”, a common trait is a strong belief in fairness, coupled with a sensitivity to rejection and/or emotional dysregulation. Being seen to be punished unfairly will be much more strongly felt by some ND people than is typical. These traits coupled with the meaning one above means many ND people are really going to struggle in interactions where they are told unfairness is fair because in this context words mean something different to what they mean.
It’s my belief this isn’t deliberate or anything, it’s partly ignorance, and in a lot of cases the application of criteria has evolved through time, and so things which maybe weren’t the clearest at the start become less and less clear over time. And although fixing some of these issues involves a bit of work, that work will ultimately be beneficial to everyone.
Recommendations:
- Review the Wayfarer guidance to make sure the words and phrases used correspond to the intending meaning, and that this meaning is conveyed in the simplest/clearest way.
- The Wayfarer forum (reddit, discord, whatever) community should try and acknowledge if something is worded poorly in guidance/criteria, rather than always assert that people should understand the “hidden curriculum”
- Any abuse related messages should be improved to be more specific. Not a bespoke message, but there needs to be a much greater range of stock messages which clearly convey the most common issues, and clearly explain the error.
There may be other things I’ve not thought of, interested to get other neurodivergent Wayfarers’ perspectives.