Warm welcome @BlanketHogg !!
Yes it can be very frustrating at times for everyone.
As far as I know, the rating is based on how often your opinion coincides with the end result. You say you are not accepting a lot of submissions and they end up getting accepted. So no agreements for you. Then it lowers your % of agreeing with the end result.
The advice you get here is generally good. Advice for presenting submissions is very good.
What is often considered as not acceptable on these discussions though, can be something, that is nearly always accepted at your location. To me this demonstrates the importance of local knowledge.
If you know something is going to be accepted but you don’t like it and cannot bring yourself to go with the majority, then maybe skip is your best option. Skipping rather than “not accepting” will not affect your rating if the poi is, in fact, accepted as you thought it would.,
I saw a post from Dadcaesar that summed it up quite well. It was along the lines of rating depends on agreeing with the majority.
I do not think you are being punished as everybody seems to suffer bad treatment in this system. It is hard to feel valued. A lot of effort is put in with no reward.
The more people like us review then the quicker an answer is delivered or so you would think.
You have a done a lot by my standards. I have been involved this year. 1175 reviews, 269 accepted, 111 not accepted, 26 duplications. Rating is great.
Those geodactic things always get accepted here and the memorial benches generally the vast majority accepted too. The benches are subjective and open to opinion anyway. Schools and generic never accepted (or hardly ever) here. I have never reported but have susupected fake once or twice. Better things to spend time on.
Have chuckled from time to time at some submissions
Any way don’t feel too bad and remember it is a game. Try and remember the good things